We attract what we are. 

We attract on the outside what we have going on in the inside. 

That means that we attract partners based on what beliefs, messages and wounds we subconsciously hold. 

Intimate partners are mirrors. They will mirror the wounds of our upbringing, no matter how good or bad we had it. The only way that we become aware of our wounds and what is actually there under the surface within ourselves, is by understanding how we are left feeling in love and dating through the partners that we attract.

If you are attracting partners where you feel unseen and insignificant, there most likely is a childhood part of you that felt the same. A part of you that stayed out of the way and took care of the needs of others instead of her own in order to keep the peace in the home and now you are attracting partners where you often feel under-valued. When we were emotionally or physically abandoned as children, we will attract partners who do the same. 

It's actually quite simple yet we make it hard. 

Just because you are now grown on the outside does not mean that you got away from the wounds of your inner child. They follow us until we become aware. 

THIS is when our reality in love changes. When we begin to see the inner child within us and finally understand her enough to see her pain. It is not by fixing yourself on the outside, which is what we all tend to do. It's by tending to the pain and understanding it. 

If you have a desire for love, that means it IS meant for you. It is the seed planted within you from the Divine. The only thing standing in the way of the love that you desire is the unconscious wounding mechanisms that you are unaware of. And the good news is, just as you created what you don't want for the past however many years, you now get to create what you DO want when you become aware of the wounds that have been hijacking your love life. 

I've been there. I was exactly where you are and it wasn't until I did the work that I am about to share with you in this 3 day detox, that my reality actually changed. Today, I have a love that is even more than I was even able to dream up years ago when I first began this journey over 10 years ago.

 It all begins on the inside!